2011年6月27日 星期一

Hey High-Class Chick--Give the Broke Guy A Chance!

To be clear, class isn't money and money can't buy class.

I've met men of means who I wouldn't take to a dog fight, let alone home to meet my father; just as I've met men who didn't have two nickels to rub together, but came from a solid family with values and virtues.

Sometimes, the broke guy may be the best man for you.

It's been my experience that In the big scheme of things, the men who did not have the silver spoon in their mouths were the men that worked harder for what they had, and they appreciated it. They also worked hard for their good woman, and they appreciated her, too; these men learned how to treat women based on what they've seen before, from their ministers, or their fathers, or their grandfathers, who taught them to say, "Yes Ma'am," and "thank you ma'am," and of course, "let me open your door for you, young lady."

For these men of meager means, money didn't rule their world, people did. Personal relationships with others, spirituality, and family really mattered.

These men knew a queen when they saw one, even if she didn't know her regal place. Somehow, these men had a deep,wholesaleedhardy is fashon in our Coogi Clothing online shop. profound respect for the gentler sex--an adoration, a sense to protect,Thousands of discount cheapshox styles for selection. and a need to be upright when dealing with us.DHgate factory portal provides Boking Industry womenboot Manufactory profile.

I appreciate a man who swims upstream to get his foot in the door, but never loses sight of his family, or his community. This man is blessed with the new school drive and sensibilities, combined with that old school touch of respect for humanity. This man may not drive the fancy cars, or wear the buffed Prada shoes, but he will arrive for your date on time, and accompany you to poetry readings, and help you to prepare dinner, and take long walks on Lake Shore Drive to dream about his next moves and how, together, you two can implement them.

This man is not a slave to his Blackberry, no--he looks into your eyes when he converses with you, because yours is the only connection that matters. He works hard,photos hearted by jacketswonder on we heart it / visual bookmark. and works even harder to make ample time for you.

He smiles when he hears your name, and would put time in his pocket and hold on to every memory, if he could.

He's a king, and you're cutting your blessings short if you overlook him.

Some ladies say they want a good man,Marketing students make Shirts edhardyshirts for Squirts a success. but pass one every day, and see right through him. Ask yourself, is your Mr. Right right under your nose--the delivery guy, the blue collar worker, the man in the hard hat, the nontraditional college student who works two part-time jobs as he quietly pursues his passion-- does one of these men deserve a chance?

On the flip side, I have seen, up close and personal, women totally degrade themselves because they seek the affections of a man with money. He may sleep with other women, sometimes women in her own circle. He won't return a call unless it's convenient. In fact, he won't do anything for her or with her unless it's convenient for him.

Still, these women stick around, for the clout, and/or the designer labels.

I'm not saying that all guys without money are angels and all guys with money are the opposite.

I only ask that if you're a woman of means, and if you seek a quality mate, perhaps you should peel away from the designer labels long enough to notice your knight in shining armor.

Just as the clothes don't make the man, his riches shouldn't make a relationship.

Give that up-and-coming guy a chance--he may be worth it.

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